MY LAST NOTE

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This probably would be my last note I am writing because I don’t think I will be able to write anything after this. There was a time when we used to say that we understand each other but we never did because having good understating in our good times was not enough to take this magical relationship forward. If we can’t help each other in our bad times then the relationship is nothing more than a relationship. By relationship, I mean that what we all have with one another, it has nothing so special because we treated each other like we treat others or in other words, we only care what we are feeling and want others to feel the same. No sacrifices, no compromises, no help, no understating and not even to care about the feeling of your partner.
Getting down in your own emotional bog isn’t easy to someone but taking others into the same or even worse than you have ever imagined could destroy many lives and even if not many so it can obviously make someone’s life hell with whom you have made promises before. The emotional barriers might take you off track but if you are walking on that wrong path even after knowing that somebody is suffering on the right path with whom you used to walk with, can make it even worse for him.

The time repeated itself, I wonder why? Because all I expected was, nothing but promises to stay together. Some situations make us tough and drag us to a point where we no more think emotionally but I was feeling emotionally destroyed. All I have decided in my life was fading in front of eyes. There was a time when I used to believe in magic, there was a time when I used to think I have a perfect relationship, there was a time when I used to think that we will face it all together and there was a time too when I used to think that I know her completely but all these misconceptions took me away from this harsh reality of being alone again.

No matter what, I cannot explain love because yes, it is not my piece of cake, it is something very eternal to reach and by saying this, I explain it again. Tough times make you tough, bad times make you bad but standing still together will help you to grow. It is easy to write and to feel but hard to make it possible for most of the people and yeah, we were on those who always stand apart in breakdowns. “Please help me, I need you,” he said. “Please understand my situation I am in the dirt,” she said. “Please save me, I am drowning,” he asked. “Let me get over this, I can’t face you.” She said. She came back and say sorry but he already died from inside.

No matter how many explanations you give after you overcome something because you have no idea about what the next person had gone through. Whatever you say, he will not understand, as you want him to understand because you both felt it separately and now have a different perspective.

I was already feeling alone and broke, broke as I never felt it before. All my experiences were laughing at me by telling me the truth of reality now. All the realizations were telling me not to believe in them because it hurts a lot. Realizations can make things better but can never convert things as you used to have it before, your feelings will change, your perception will change and even your reality will change. This thing cannot be explained by the person who said that she just realized it now, to a person who was into the world that has no connection with reality just because she did not have the conscious access to her memories and could not recall it. There is always a way to confront something to someone and if you don’t know the way and the consequence then do not do it because you don’t know the emotional stability of the person you are confronting. Moreover, if it is like that then till yet you don’t know that person from inside you are living with.

Holding hands, watching stars, travelling world is not only for the high or good times of your life and if it so then I would prefer to walk alone, I would prefer to see them alone, I prefer to travel alone because if it can’t help me in my breakdowns so they are no more magical for me. I would put the entire blame on the human brain who pushed me to write these things that I don’t want to write, it is our human brain who is asleep but when awake, it could make your desire sleep so it simply means the entire journey I passed, I passed it with my closed eyes. I will open my eyes again and alone.
Till then you keep smiling. And yeah friends, we are not together.

I cannot write it anymore.

GOODBYE!

Few Para from World Beyond Imagination….

Few Para from World Beyond Imagination….

World Beyond Imagination

Your desire can change your world. Just stick to your decisions and make your life more beautiful to live. We are here to live our life and not spend it. This life is too short to live and enjoy but we still get stuck in small issues and spend our entire life with soreness. Again, life is all about your choices – whether you want to live your life happily by going beyond your limitation or living your life just like a common person, who always blames others for not succeeding in his/her life.

The difference of perception between us is the one of greatest reasons for right and wrong. Some people will judge you by their perspective and some will adequately explain and predict your actions, and that is why they are more likely to see the entire world as coherent and controllable. No one can understand us completely because we never reveal everything in front of anyone; we all have something that we just want to keep to ourselves and it is not for the external world.

Keep your life, your opinion, and your experience to yourself if you are not wise enough to understand that those things are not ultimate. Moreover, if you want to share these things with anyone then be a rational thinker first.

It is necessary to go beyond your comfort zone because once, I read somewhere that the comfort zone is a good place to live in but it is that barren land where you cannot grow anything. Initially, we do not know about our intensions or what we are doing in our lives but gradually we understand to come out of our comfort zone and decide to do something out of the box.

Love is everywhere in this universe, you just need to feel your presence. Don’t try to discover love because you are already in the aura of love, just understand yourself and you will find yourself everywhere.

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There was a Time….

There was a Time….

 

There was a time when I was searching for love, and I ended up finding you.

I knew that my life will gonna change, but regards your appearance I had no clue,

I was expecting something from this world, but you sparkled me out of the blue,

There was a time when I was searching for love, and I ended up finding you.

 

Life was something before love, but it became everything with you,

I was not my 100%, ergo, you taught and pushed me to pursue,

You always said that I am always with you,

And those words added some more value,

when I didn’t ended but started finding you.

Now, there is a time when I start finding love and

I end up exploring you.

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World Beyond Imagination; Story of an Interpretation. 

Do you want to know the difference between realistic and unrealistic vision? Do you know the difference between reality and illusion? Are you also living a life influenced by the external world? If you are searching for the difference between imagination and reality, then you are holding the right book. 

World Beyond Imagination is a true a story of a girl named Stella, who was confused by her imagination and inner voice but eventually made a connection between her imagination and her reality. This journey of understanding the human mind and the connections within us has completely changed the author’s life. The name of the book itself carries a secret that reveals itself at the beautiful end of the journey. This is a beautiful story of a relationship that the author has with this mysterious girl.

Read to find out how the author interpreted Stella’s unusual experiences that sometimes bothered her, how they both understand the concept of the real self and the secret of the world beyond imagination. 

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DANGAL AND DREAMS 

Wikipedia – Dangal (English: Wrestling competition) is a 2016 Indian biographical sports drama film directed by Nitesh Tiwari. It stars Aamir Khan as Mahavir Singh Phogat, who taught wrestling to his daughters Geeta Phogat and Babita Kumari. The former is India’s first female wrestler to win at the 2010 Commonwealth Games, where she won the gold medal (55 kg). Her sister Babita Kumari won the silver (51 kg). “Dangal” is the Hindi term for “a wrestling competition”.
Dangal is both inspiring and entertaining. The movie inspired me a lot and taught me many things. While watching this movie I took a decision to write an article on the same because there were many things that I could relate to our dreams and the life we are living. I found many realities in the movie. The message I am giving through this article is not only about the movie, it is about the reality. 

REALITY? Okay! It’s about what I felt. 

Amir Khan played a role of father in the movie who used to be a wrestler but he lost his dream because he did not earn well in his game. Therefore, he had a same dream for his son but when he has four daughters, he lost every hope.  He believed that only his son could accomplish his dream until he found the same talent of wrestling in his daughters. Afterward, he taught wrestling to his daughters Geeta Phogat and Babita Kumari. In the initial training, both of the girls were not interested in the game and gave numerous attempts to ran away from their trainings. However, they started showing enthusiasm in their game when they realized that their father is not doing anything wrong with them.

“Simply do not judge it before you understand it.”

As we, all know “hard work pays off”, Geeta became a national champion under her father’s guidance. There was time in Geeta’s life when she was forgetting everything that her father taught her to become a champion because she found new way of living life according to her that eventually emotionally broke her down. 

At the end, once again, she recognized her real game through her father’s vision and that made her Champion in commonwealth games. 

Do not handover your dreams to anyone. 



Amir Khan as a wrestler had a dream to won a gold medal for the Nation and as a father; he had a same dream for his daughters. That simply means no matter how, he just wanted that gold medal for the country. If he fought with everyone for his daughters, why did not he fight for himself to get that gold medal? However, eventually he indirectly achieved his dream and made his daughters great inspiration to the world. Hats off!  

Here I am not going to judge anyone’s life but somewhere in his journey, he faced disappointment because of Geeta’s unusual behavior. This is what happens when we expect anything from anyone. 

Everything was favorable to Mahvir Singh when his daughter Geeta, was doing training under him but when Geeta adopted a new environment; she changed her mentality and started forgetting his teachings that affected both of their lives. Everyone is playing a game of perception; the world will convert into the same pattern that you have made inside your mind. This thing works in everyone’s life. Geeta changed the pattern of her thinking when she found that there is no one who could restrict her to live a life that she always wanted to live. She stopped living his father’s life and started living her own. However, when she realized that the aim yet to accomplished, she went back to her father and accepted all the teachings that her father gave her because it was her father’s dream after all. 

Your dreams are more important than anything else is. You are the one who could agreeably achieve your dreams without getting hurt from anyone. Moreover, if you face any disappointment then only you will be responsible for that and you will not drown into the sea of negative thinking because of someone else who is working for your dreams. I hope you can relate it to the Movie. 

When you are working for yourself then there are more chances that you can handle yourself during the tough times because when you handover your dreams to someone else then first you want that person to work according  you after that you can make yourself clam. Moreover, that person might take longer time than you do. 

 Everyone is different in their perspectives towards the world, therefore, do not let anyone put their feet inside your shoes and you too do not try to live someone else’s life because ultimately you will find out the way to live life according to you. 

You are unique enough to enjoy your life and to achieve your Dreams. 

Good luck! 

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What is the extraordinary results you got from doing Self-talk and other techniques? 

​Another question on quora.com

Extraordinary results of doing self-talk..

I love to give answers of such questions because this make me feel special. Just want to cover this question in a short answer :

Self-talk is one of the best ways to reveal the real potential you are carrying within you. People those who are really busy in their work and do not have much time for themselves and are like slaves of time and situations because they take their decision according to their societies and cultures they belongs to. Through self-talk andintrospection ( A looking inward; specifically, the act or process ofself-examination, or inspection of one’s own thoughts and feelings; the cognition which the mind has of its own acts and states; self-consciousnessreflection.) One can easily become extraordinary because after doing all these things, you have control over yourselves and you are able to handle any sought of problems in your life. People who know about their behaviour are really flexible for any situation.



Self-talk can also enhance your emotional intelligence and you can create a balance between your analytical thinking and emotions. A person can think rationally.

There are so many persons around the world who are looking for seeking advise of others rather than to look inside for the solutions. Therefore, if you talk to yourself you don’t need anyone to solve your personal issues. Even you can deal with others with their personal issues.

Self-talk is like a meditation to clam yourself and to be in your higher consciousness ((cognitive theory) a supposed mode of cognition beyond human self-awareness.) After this your past and future won’t bother you because you will learn to live in the present moment and that is what we call the real life to live.

I always do Self-talk and introspection to be aware about myself and about environment as well.

Our mind is a mysterious part of our life and self-talk and introspection are one of the ways to find it out in a right manner. So, always believe in yourself and have faith what you have.

You are wonderful, find out your real self and be the master of your life.

Thank you

Prashant Panwar ( click here to read more)

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How can you overcome depression faced during exam preparation?


How you can be lazy and successful at the same time? 

Somebody ask this question to me on quora.com : 

It is a good question I always wanted to answer.

A short answer :-

I just want to share my own experience with you, I also used to be a lazy person when I was in my school life. However, I always had a desire to become a very successful person in my life but this laziness always held me back to work upon my dreams. Just because of this trait I became a daydreamer and used to believe that someday everything in my surroundings will work according to me. But nothing happend.

One day I realised that apart of everything I have a quality of writing things. I realised that because my laziness allowed me to think so.

One negative thought in your mind might push you to find out that one positive thought you have, to kick out that one negative thought.

I started writing more about human mind, life and my personal experiences and published them in my blog. After finding out this quality I have, my laziness made me an author of a book and changed my perception towards laziness.

Yes laziness and success can be together only if your purpose is stronger than anything else. Just do not get disappointed because the person who tasted bitter could easily explain the real beauty of sweetness.

Thank you… 

A story and explanation of Perception

​Part I

 Hello friends! It has been a long to write anything about human mind. So today, I have decided to share a wonderful experience of mine with a meaningful explanation.

In this article you will going to take a look of some definitions of perception and a real experience of mine that will surely going to change your perception towards human beings. At the end of the article,you will understand that we cannot tell everything about a person by just watching his/her profession. 


What is your perception towards perception? 

Haha! You must be feeling that whatever we perceive from the outer world is our perception but actually it is not that much easy to explain perception. An explanation of perception is an interesting process to talk about, let us start the journey and takes a look of a real story of perception towards this magical world. 

Definition of perception –

An active process in which we select, organize and interpret sensory inputs to achieve a grasp of our surrounding is known as perception. 

This definition seems so professional, isn’t it? 

Let me make it more clear to you! 

Perception is the process through which we interpret and organize the received information so as to produce conscious experience of object and their relationship. 

– Perception is the meaning added onto our sensations. 

We have different perception towards this beautiful world. Ahh ha! Might be this world is worst for someone. Again it is all about your perception that how you see the world. 

Our different experiences and learning are responsible for our different perception. Suppose, someone is going to ride a bicycle for the first time in his life and while riding that bicycle he got injured by a car. 

What do you think about his perception towards riding bicycle? Is he going to ride it again or not? 

Ask the same question to someone who loves to ride all around. You will get a completely flip answer. Therefore, whatever we are looking around us is not ultimate, might be the exact same thing is completely different someone else.

I have my own personal experience to share with you. This experience is about perception and a great message to an Indian society. 

Yesterday I was going to my college by an auto rickshaw and I was talking to the driver. He was bald and a healthy old man around his sixties. We were talking about the Indian government and about the roadways system of India. He was not that much satisfied by our government. Of course, when you expect something from the nation and you are not getting return of that, you will surely get disappointed from that. (Whatever we expect from something or somebody it doesn’t mean you will get the same thing in return. Therefore, no need to get disappointed from that just make yourself clam and happy by what you have in your life.)

 He was also happy in his life and we talked afterwards. When we covered half of our journey, I was thinking he is just a normal driver like others. We know well about drivers of auto rickshaw and their behaviors as well. (Don’t judge a person by his/her profession

Now, the climax time 😉

“Son, what do you do? “ He asked me. 

“Uncle, I am a student of psychology and an author of a book.” I replied. 

He showed his normal expressions on that. 

“Uncle tell me more about you.” I asked. He did not listen. 

“What do you write? Shayari or poetry” He asked.

“I write stories and articles on facts.” I replied. 

After a while, he started presenting shayari back to back with a deep meaning. I was really astonished and motivated after listening to his wonderful shayari. 

I was very much impressed by his meaningful words. 

After that, he started talking about his personal life. I was listening to him very carefully and waiting for something interesting because the way he was speaking I was sure that he has interested experiences of life to talk about. 

“Son, your age is very crucial to stand up to have perfect knowledge, interaction and for the good education as well.” He started speaking again. “I have seen so many brilliant students in my life and even the students who wasted their entire life by just having fun all the time. So, it is necessary to understand these things you are doing in your life. I am not telling you to stop hanging out with friends; of course, fun is also a part of life. But it is not a life itself.” 

I know one thing that he had experienced everything in his life and that is why he was talking so confidently. 

There was a flow of silence for a while because that time I was interpreting what he just said.

“I have two sons.” He said. 

“ohh.. that’s nice.” I replied with a smile. 

“My first son is a singer and he always got an offer from different places to sing. Even once in a job interview he got selected by his singing talent only” he said these lines with a broad smile over his face. 

“Wow that’s really wonderful” I replied with shock. 

“My second son is an actor, these days he is shooting with Salam Khan for his forthcoming movie. He is playing a role of bodyguard with him. You will watch a person in a movie wearing black dress all the time. He is my son” 

“What the f**k? Did you just said Salam Khan?” I asked with the horrible expression on my face. 

“Yes my dear.” He replied with an attitude. 

The moment he talked about his son I did not believe that I roam around in auto rickshaws and I did never have a chance to have conversation with these wonderful drivers but today when I got, I experienced this! 

Moreover, when we pulled up to a red light, he sang a song with perfect voice rhythm. After he finished I had no words to express my feelings. His voice was his biggest talent I realize it that time. 

“Why are you still driving this rickshaw if you have so much in your life?” I politely asked him. 

“Now you asked me a good question son, I am driving this because this rickshaw gave me everything in my life. No matter how great I am going to be in my life I will never forget the days of my struggle. Because the moment you forget these struggling part of your life you will easily lose your real self-image.” 

“Well said uncle,” I agreed

“Here we go son, we reached to our destination.” He informed me.

Mr. Sachdeva

“Thank you so much uncle! It was pleasure to talk with you.” I thank him with smile, gave his rent, and entered into my college. 

Friends we all have different perception towards this world and I believe after reading this real experience you must understand that whatever we see is not ultimate. I never met a person like this. Even we have these types of people in our country and we are still finding out the talent all over the world. Why won’t we find out talent by talking with each other and change our perception towards a real human being.

 Perception plays vital role in human life. Before you judge someone or something, first make sure that you have complete information about that person or a thing. 

If you really want to change your perception, then starts living in present and always learn from your past. 

Perception is not what you see; it is what you understand after see. 

Written by – Prashant Panwar (Author)

Why does being around people make me depressed more? 

I got this question by someone in quora.com

A short opinion on this topic that why people feel depressed in public and what are the causes and factor responsible for this. Let’s take a look :  

​Social interaction is one of the factors which effects our behaviour. People those who are introvert are facing this problem of getting depressed in public because whether they are afraid of being shamed or had any traumatic event or they are living in their own created universe.


According to evolutionary psychology, it focuses on genetic factors as well as environmental factors contributing to human development. Those who are genetically strong will develop into a stronger human as compared to those who have inherited weak genes. Also the inherited factors would work well only if there is a conducive environment hence the possibility of the good gene individual not making up to the high level is present if the environment is not conducive. Darwin’s theory of evolution involves the study of the genes and environmental mechanism that underlie the universal development of social and cognitive competencies

If you have this problem of getting depressed  in public then don’t worry you are not the only one facing this. There are many reasons behind this but the there is a easiest way to overcome by changing your environment according to your comfort. Gradually, come up with more metal peace and try to interact with others. And if you think that the problem is more complex then take an appointment with a physician. 

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